Rain
One of the strangest things that has stuck with me since my time in primary school is the fact that Eskimos have 16 different words for snow. At the time, I remember thinking something like ‘No way, that’s crazy, why would you want 16 different words for something you can describe with one!’, but on reflection, I have a good idea what they’re getting at.
Take the British obsession with rain, for example. Yesterday, I was out on Dartmoor with a few friends. In the time it took us to climb Haytor, the weather went from fine to spotting to spitting to a fine drizzle to a steady fall to coming down in buckets. That’s five phrases right there, and I reckon you’ll have a good idea what I mean by each one. Suddenly, the Eskinos don’t look so daft.
So why is it that we have so many words to describe water falling out of the sky, and so few to describe the important things, like our relationships. How do I describe the affection I feel for my wife? I’d say ‘I love you’. But how do I express a desire for a plate of chips? ‘I’d love a plate of chips.’
I think this is one of the reasons that we find things like relationships difficult to talk about – we just don’t have the vocabulary. Perhaps the answer is to forego language altogether. Instead of telling people how we feel about them, we should show them instead. We could become a nation of men and women who place deeds above chatter, and who understand each other through the quality of our doing, not the quantity of our words.
After all, who cares what the weather’s like when someone gives you a big hug and takes you out for tea.